There are so many safety measures in place now for children, that the only way I can explain making it to my age without them is, survival!
We don't want our children to just survive, so, we've created car seats that cradle your newborn and keep them secure until you get where you're going; high chairs and strollers with 5-point safety straps; helmets for them to ride trikes or bikes. And of course there are various and sundry other safety items that keep them from scraping their knees or elbows in a fall, safety gates for stairs, closer set bars in their cribs, painted without leaded paint. Yes, children are safer now, physically.
When we were children, we enjoyed the exploration of our world with some limitations. Our parents would give us dire warnings about certain aspects and they expected we would abide. And abide we did, because, the thought of repercussions for non-adherence was greater than our curiosity.
That did not always prevent us going past the line, but, in general it did. We weren't given a lot of instructions, but, those we were, we knew were meant to be obeyed. And some instructions came in really handy - my Dad told me to never let an animal know you're afraid of it - which came in extremely useful the day I encountered a pack of dogs who didn't appear to be friendly at all. Quaking in my boots, I stood my ground and walked ever so slowly backwards towards an escape route. Fortunately, for me, I think they were just as glad I left their property. Thanks Dad!
So, now, we're all grown up and have no one to tell us that there could be danger around the next corner, mostly metaphorically speaking. It's up to each one of us to explore those things that could bring us the success we desire. We have to stand our ground and forge ahead, quaking and all, towards the vision we have created for ourselves. Your vision is your end game and unless you're willing to play, you won't get there. Safety in all things is not an option!
How do we measure our risk appetite? Start small if you like, but, start. You're not likely to stumble across success, you have work to do. Get it done. Risk failure - fail even - but, don't stop.
Be like Thomas Edison, who found nearly 10,000 ways something wasn't going to work, before, he found the thing that did. Or, like James Lee Burke, a prolific writer, but, one who was rejected over 100 times before he was published the first time. What kept them going? Likely, they had a vision. They knew what they wanted to do, what they could do and they weren't ready to quit.
Your success is your own. There is no magic wand; what there is - vision, mission, values. Put them to work for you and you will succeed. Adapt along the way, since you may have to follow some different paths before you get to where you're going. But, don't give up. If you know where you're going and you're adaptable to the means of getting there. It can be done!
Success stories are all around you - write your own and go for it! If you don't believe me, check out this author, who had a near death experience before he really plugged in to the thing that he knew he would do - someday! Don't let your someday slip by you because you're too busy with your day to day.
http://friesenpress.com/blog/2013/7/22/self-publishing-book-promotions-strategy
We don't want our children to just survive, so, we've created car seats that cradle your newborn and keep them secure until you get where you're going; high chairs and strollers with 5-point safety straps; helmets for them to ride trikes or bikes. And of course there are various and sundry other safety items that keep them from scraping their knees or elbows in a fall, safety gates for stairs, closer set bars in their cribs, painted without leaded paint. Yes, children are safer now, physically.
When we were children, we enjoyed the exploration of our world with some limitations. Our parents would give us dire warnings about certain aspects and they expected we would abide. And abide we did, because, the thought of repercussions for non-adherence was greater than our curiosity.
That did not always prevent us going past the line, but, in general it did. We weren't given a lot of instructions, but, those we were, we knew were meant to be obeyed. And some instructions came in really handy - my Dad told me to never let an animal know you're afraid of it - which came in extremely useful the day I encountered a pack of dogs who didn't appear to be friendly at all. Quaking in my boots, I stood my ground and walked ever so slowly backwards towards an escape route. Fortunately, for me, I think they were just as glad I left their property. Thanks Dad!
So, now, we're all grown up and have no one to tell us that there could be danger around the next corner, mostly metaphorically speaking. It's up to each one of us to explore those things that could bring us the success we desire. We have to stand our ground and forge ahead, quaking and all, towards the vision we have created for ourselves. Your vision is your end game and unless you're willing to play, you won't get there. Safety in all things is not an option!
How do we measure our risk appetite? Start small if you like, but, start. You're not likely to stumble across success, you have work to do. Get it done. Risk failure - fail even - but, don't stop.
Be like Thomas Edison, who found nearly 10,000 ways something wasn't going to work, before, he found the thing that did. Or, like James Lee Burke, a prolific writer, but, one who was rejected over 100 times before he was published the first time. What kept them going? Likely, they had a vision. They knew what they wanted to do, what they could do and they weren't ready to quit.
Your success is your own. There is no magic wand; what there is - vision, mission, values. Put them to work for you and you will succeed. Adapt along the way, since you may have to follow some different paths before you get to where you're going. But, don't give up. If you know where you're going and you're adaptable to the means of getting there. It can be done!
Success stories are all around you - write your own and go for it! If you don't believe me, check out this author, who had a near death experience before he really plugged in to the thing that he knew he would do - someday! Don't let your someday slip by you because you're too busy with your day to day.
http://friesenpress.com/blog/2013/7/22/self-publishing-book-promotions-strategy
Let 'your day' start today - live positively, enjoy the ride - do what matters!
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